'Signs that your boyfriend loves you' made me go gaga!

So I read this blog where it was about "How to know if your boyfriend respects you?" and I went crazy! This is why I went crazy! They stated there that your boyfriend respects you if he asks for your opinion. Like when he wants to buy something whether it's a new shirt, new dog or what so ever comes to his mind that he wants to buy he actually asks for your opinion first.

Here is what got me thinking, how if the girlfriend prefers a decision maker? Won't the whole idea of the boyfriend asking for her opinion will be a turn-off? Well frankly speaking, I love decision makers and I love it when guys know what they are doing. If they say I want to buy a car then I want them to justify why and its a turn on if their justification is on point.

Well, that means they are independent and they are able to stand for themselves. In fact, in future they would be able to make decisions in split-second cause of all the experience they have now. Isn't it asking for my opinion is more like babysitting them?

How if one day he comes to me and asks where should I work? Must I baby sit him for his whole life when I have a life on my own? Okay I understand that I might take this a little too far but yeah I love guys who knows exactly what they are doing but as the article says that your boyfriend respects you if he asks for your opinion, I would prefer if he comes to me to ask "I don't know which colour to choose." rather than "I don't know what to choose". I prefer an independent alpha guy over any guy in this world.

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